To All,
I have recently had a posting from an adopted person regarding the
search for her "birth" mother. My specific concern is that the
maiden name of the mother and maternal grandparents are given in
the posting and since the mother was born in 1953, all are probably
very much alive and recognizable. They are not from WI but have
ties here. I have no problem supporting her search as she wants to
know her heritage, but I also strongly believe in the right to
personal privacy of living people ( the grandparents may not even
know about this child ). So:
1 Please write me personally and NOT TO THIS LIST, with your
suggestions.
2 Please just stick to how to hand the posting and not about the
merits of her search as I am not here to judge any of them.
3 I will write I (one) summary letter to this list sharing the results of
what is sent to me for those who are interested, labeled "Adoptee
Parent Search". Those who are not interested will know what to
delete without wasting time.
4 I will answer each letter so you know that I appreciate your time,
thoughts and input!
Thank you, and I would appreciate hearing from the "quiet ones" on
this one, too! Rita - Oconto County