Hello All,
My friend found this on one of her lists. I was very touched by it. Thought
you might be too.
THE STORY TELLER
We are the chosen. My feelings are in each family there is one who seems
called to find the ancestors. To put flesh on their bones and make them live
again, to tell the family story and to feel that somehow they know and
approve. To me, doing genealogy is not a cold gathering of facts but,
instead, breathing life into all who have gone before. We are the story
tellers of the tribe. All tribes have one. We have been called as it were by
our genes. Those who have gone before cry out to us: Tell our story. So, we
do.
In finding them, we somehow find ourselves. How many graves have I stood
before now and cried? I have lost count. How many times have I told the
ancestors you have a wonderful family you would be proud of us? How many
times have I walked up to a grave and felt somehow there was love there for
me? I cannot say.
It goes beyond just documenting facts. It goes to who am I and why do I do
the things I do? It goes to seeing a cemetery about to be lost forever to
weeds and indifference and saying I can't let this happen.
The bones here are bones of my bone and flesh of my flesh. It goes to doing
something about it. It goes to pride in what our ancestors were able to
accomplish. How they contributed to what we are today. It goes to respecting
their hardships and losses, their never giving in or giving up, their
resoluteness to go on and build a life for their family-
It goes to deep pride that they fought to make and keep us a Nation. It goes
to a deep and immense understanding that they were doing it for us. That we
might be born who we are. That we might remember them. So we do With love and
caring and scribing each fact of their existence, because we are them and
they are us. So, as a scribe called, I tell the story of my family. It is up
to that one called in the next generation to answer the call and take their
place in the long line of family storytellers.
That, is why I do my family genealogy, and that is what calls those young and
old to step up and put flesh on the bones. ( Unknown Author )
Betty