Maybe you don't realize, or your note would have sounded a little different...
A list owner has a CHOICE of having mail go to the list or to the person you write.
Since I have two list-from the beginning, I know this.
This list is only the SECOND one I have ran into-who chose to have all mail go to the
list- Most folks don't notice that-and I surely did not-since it is not a common
thing.
You think when you hit reply-it is to the person who wrote you
From: Pam Tessier <pamtessier(a)sympatico.ca>
Date: 2005/10/19 Wed PM 05:09:02 EDT
To: INMIAMI-L(a)rootsweb.com
Subject: Re: [INMIAMI-L] Pflug-Peru
Hi,
Is this man dead? If he isn't, then perhaps some discretion is
warranted. The people on this list subscribe from all over Canada and
the US and we now know some very personal details about this man..
Pam