Debby,
Not unreasonable at all. It is rude of them to cause your web page to
appear inside a frame of their page. You should either ask that the
link be removed or that the link be set to appear in a new page. The
latter can be done very simply with just an additional parameter in the
existing code.
Scott Satterthwaite
Huntington County INGenWeb Coordinator
http://nfp.huntington.in.us/genweb/