Helen,
Thanks for you email. Very interesting. I think that we are close.
Can you provide any more information and dates. Here is mine.
Mary Penfold (bap 7 October 1821, Hartfield) married James Carr (father's name
Vince)30 December 1838 in Hartfield.
Their children:
Mary Carr bap 1841
Vince Carr bap 6 August 1843,
Hannah Carr bap 2 November 1845,
James Carr bap 7 November 1847,
William Carr bap 1850
These baptisms are either Hartfield or Withyham, both are so close they touch.
James Carr (junior) married Lucy ? in about 1870 in Hartfield.
Their children were:
Ellen Carr bap 1872 Hartfield
Andrew Carr bap 1883 Hartfield
Elizabeth Carr bap 1879 Hartfield
Louisa Carr bap 1880 Hartfield
Census:
1851 Mary and James Carr are living in Marsh Green
1881 Mary and James were living at Weslyan Chapel Cottage, Hartfield
1891 Mary Carr is a widow and living with Edward Inkpen and Emma, possibly her
daughter.
Would love to have a look at those photographs of Hartfield.
Look forward to you response,
Regards,
Trevor Penfold
Beckenham, Kent, England
Tel: 020 8658 5170